Life is so much better when you have a strong group of friends you can lean on through good times and bad. Whether you’re dating, engaged, or married, it can be easy to fall into the relationship bubble and stop making plans with friends. But life feels so much richer when you have both your partner and your besties.
I believe there are nine types of friends everyone needs in their life. (And yes, if you’re lucky, one person can check multiple boxes.)
A Cheerleader
Everyone needs a friend who reminds them of all their strengths and accomplishments. Your cheerleader celebrates your wins, hypes you up when you’re feeling down or insecure, and reminds you how capable you actually are. Bonus points if they also brag about you to other people.
A Confidant
This is a person you can confide in about anything. They get the full story, not the abridged version. They’re one of the first people you text when something amazing happens and one of the first people you call when life falls apart a little. You know they’d answer at 3 a.m. if you really needed them.
A Work Friend
A good work friend can completely change your work life. They’re the person you Slack during long meetings, grab coffee with between projects, vent to after stressful days, and rely on for honest feedback and advice.
A Motivator
Some friends help you become the best version of yourself. A motivator encourages you to go after your goals, whether that’s applying for a promotion, getting healthier, sticking to a budget, or finally starting the thing you keep talking yourself out of doing.
A Connector
This friend somehow knows everyone and genuinely enjoys bringing people together. They’re always organizing dinners, inviting people into the group, or introducing friends who they just know will get along. You’re likely to meet people you like since you have a close friend in common and, perk, you can all hang out together.
An Adventurer
This is the person you text when you want to do something fun. They’re always up for signing up for a Pickleball class, learning Mahjong, training for a race, or saying yes to whatever you find fun.
An Energizer
You know those people you leave feeling happier after spending time with? That’s an energizer. Their enthusiasm is contagious, and even a quick coffee date or phone call with them can completely shift your mood.
A Coach
A coach helps you hit your goals. They give you the support and encouragement you need. In some cases, they might even teach you their tips and tricks for learning a new skills, whether it’s running a marathon or training a puppy. They check in on your progress and genuinely want to see you succeed.
A Comedian
Life is a lot easier when you have someone who can make you laugh until you cry. You look forward to hearing their stories and they help you not take things so seriously all the time.