I have at least four to-do lists on my phone and desk at any given moment. I often work toward the next deadline, assignment, errand, or meeting without pausing to think about the big picture of what I am trying to accomplish. I’m going to set aside time to answer these personal development journal prompts.
Personal development journal prompts:
- What was the biggest change I made within the last year? How has it affected my life?
- What were my top three personal and professional accomplishments within the last year? How did they make me feel?
- What were three of my biggest personal or professional challenges? How did I feel when I was faced with each challenge, and how did I respond?
- What was the most important lesson I learned this year? How can I apply it in the future?
- When did I feel happiest? What was happening, and who was I with?
- When did I feel saddest? What happened, and what helped me cope with those feelings?
- What are three long-term goals I want to work toward? What are three concrete steps I can take toward accomplishing each goal?
- What are three short-term goals I want to work toward? What are three concrete steps I can take toward accomplishing each goal?
- What are my top three goals for my relationships, personal development, and professional development?
- What is something I feel guilty about? Is there anything I can do to address the situation or feel less guilty?
- What am I most grateful for right now? How can I show my appreciation?
- Who are the top five people I spend the most time with? What do I love and appreciate about each of them?
- What am I anxious or apprehensive about? Which parts of the situation can I control?
- Where do I want to be this time next year? What would need to change for me to get there?
- Which friendships make me feel the happiest and most empowered? Are there any friendships that leave me feeling sad, self-conscious, or disappointed?
- How can I be kinder to myself and others?
- What is holding me back? What habits, circumstances, or beliefs are limiting me from accomplishing what I want to accomplish?
- Am I spending my time wisely? How can I be more intentional about where my time and energy go?
- What are three ways I can step outside of my comfort zone?
- What are three things that make me feel the most stressed or anxious? Is there anything I can do to alleviate that stress?
- What are three things that make me feel the most relaxed and happy? How can I make more time for them?
- What can I do to feel more confident, self-assured, and content?
- What habits currently support the person I want to become? Which habits are getting in my way?
- What is one habit I would like to establish? What small action can I take today to begin building it?
- What is one habit I would like to break? What situations tend to trigger it, and what could I do instead?
- When do I feel most like myself? What people, places, or activities bring out that version of me?
- What parts of my life feel fulfilling right now? Which areas feel neglected or out of balance?
- What boundaries do I need to establish or reinforce? What would become easier if I honored those boundaries?
- Is there something I have been avoiding? Why have I been avoiding it, and what is the smallest possible first step I could take?
- What negative thoughts do I frequently have about myself? How would I respond if a close friend said those things about themselves?
- What is something I am proud of that I do not acknowledge often enough?
- What mistake have I made recently? What did it teach me about myself, my needs, or my values?
- What does success mean to me at this stage of my life? Has my definition of success changed over time?
- What does a balanced and fulfilling day look like for me? How could I incorporate more elements of that day into my regular routine?
- What activities give me energy? Which responsibilities, habits, or relationships tend to drain it?
- What is something I have always wanted to learn? What is one realistic way I could start learning it?
- What compliment or positive feedback have I received that has stayed with me? Why was it meaningful?
- When have I demonstrated courage, resilience, or perseverance? What strengths helped me move forward?
- What am I waiting for permission to do? Can I give myself that permission?
- What would I do if I knew I could not fail? What does my answer reveal about what I truly want?
- What expectations have I placed on myself? Are they realistic, helpful, and genuinely mine?
- What do I need more of in my life right now? What do I need less of?
- How do I usually respond when my plans change? How could I become more flexible and compassionate with myself?
- What does rest mean to me? Do I allow myself to rest without feeling that I need to earn it?
- What is one decision I have been struggling to make? What would I choose if I trusted myself completely?
- How have I grown over the past five years? What would my past self be proud to see?
- What do I want the people closest to me to know about what I am experiencing right now?
- What is one thing I can do this week to make my life easier, calmer, or more enjoyable?
- What would I like to celebrate about this season of my life?
- If I could write a short note to my future self, what would I want to remind them of?
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These are all great! Good timing for new years resolutions coming up!
I love exercises like this. It’s great to look back on life and do some serious reflecting and goal setting!
This is a great thing to do at the end of the year to see how far you’ve come and grown!
Greta | http://www.gretahollar.com
What a great post to end the year with! Will def keep these in mind when the new year’s comes!
xoxo,
Amy | Pastel N Pink
I love these questions- I definitely think I need to sit down with a cup of coffee and think about these soon!
xoxo,
Katie
chicincarolina.blogspot.com
I am saving this to sit down and answer all these for myself next week. I just love this
Thank you so much, Sydney!
I love this! It’s actually so important to reflect on the year and your personal growth to see what you might need to improve upon. I don’t think you can ever stop learning and loving yourself.
La Belle Sirene
I’m going to have to go through this exercise right now…it’s SO dang good!
Coming Up Roses
I’m so glad it was helpful!
This is such a great post. I love asking myself questions like this because it’s so important for personal growth.
xo // http://www.thematerialgirl.co
Thanks a lot for sharing this post. It’s the best way to end the year. As I started to answer, things started to become more clearer. It give a better picture on what need to be change in New year for a happy productive life!!!
These are all great reminders!
Mindy II amixofmin.com
Such great questions to reflect on as we begin to transition into a new year! I love the thought of reflecting on happiness.
XOXO
mQs
http://www.shorelifeofm.blogspot.com
Hi elana, thank you for this. I would definitely use this to reflect on my goals and vision.